Dating too busy to call
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— Emotional Whiplash This kind of thing happens all the time, and I think we, especially as women, make it much more difficult than it has to be because we have this sort of fairytale, rom-com idea of love and relationships where our significant other will move heaven and earth to be with us if his feelings are real and sincere. Keep your heart open and hope for better luck next time.If you’re anything like the amazing guys we work with every day, you are smart, active, and even involved with your community. By the end of the day, they can feel too spent to muster the energy for their dating lives. Here’s how one client put it: “For me, I was always putting off meeting someone until I’ve achieved X goal.So what becomes the chief problem when it comes to dating? What’s important to note is that many introverts use a packed schedule as an EXCUSE to avoid dating awkwardness. Once X goal was achieved, I created Y goal just to procrastinate meeting someone.rather than being externally imposed, preventing you from dating.If something is important to you, you WILL find a way.
For dating specifically, time management is the key to busting the “too busy to date” myth.