Nelly dating ashanti still
We live in a world that is different from the 50's its ok to get married after 30. I have been applying everything that you said ever since I graduated college. Marriage and kids may or may not happen in my life but I'm DEFINITELY not gonna stress out if doesn't happen.
In my opionion most should get married til after 30. IF more people learn who they are and what MARRIAGE is and what it takes to have a successful marriage then that will deter cheating and a lot of divorces. Maybe Nelly and Shanti want to keep their relartionship private so the WORLD won't have their opinions about them. I think WOMEN of all cultures deal with the thing of finding the "PERFECT" man( which doesn't eist)...white, latino, middle eastern, asian, etc men would say the samew thing that Nelly is saying being that Nelly is black he is speaking about what he knows and obviously who he dats ands that's black women. ( Online Store, Get Name Brand Fashion From 12USD Now!
The more we become 'too independent' , the worse it will be for our relationships. They just want someone true, respectful and supportive.. I want my baby to have a man like him who listens to her, takes care of her needs, respects her and allows her to shine as a woman... I don't need to be in front and he NEVER allows me to be behind. Women in prior generations took care of their hair, the females of this generation can too they just do not choose to. There are REAL MEN who step up to the plate a stake their claim in their women. We as women need to get back to the basics and let our men be men. However, you gotta treat your man like he is GOLDEN. Phat is not where it is at because it is not healthy. Brothas use to look but you could tell they did not like what they saw.
Women don't give a EFF about height & looks & money.. I'm the big bread winner in our family BUT he's the man through and through and he takes good damn care of me and our daughter... i've noticed how hard it has been for me to adjust to letting him do things for me or give me advice. its just that ive been on my own for awhile and now, i keep thinking of how my very own father told me "let him be a man". And some people can, if not really thinkiing about it carefully can think this means being subservient and its not! Thats the problem with a majority of females out here now, they seek validation for external sources. Nobody is holding a gun to her head, she can be with another guy that will love her today if she chooses. Stay out of others' business and get in the gym and REALLY workout and lose some weight, stop having out of wedlock kids, stop thinking everything revolves around you, stop telling all of your business in the street, stop getting tatted up like sailors and wanting a corporate man to take you places with him where his coworkers will see he is dating a walking graffiti, and take care of your REAL hair. Let's face it the majority of black women are overweight.
The ghetto,bitter behavior is not something men want in a women. v=gp8CIAl Ebv M very nicely (and rightly) said by him. - if you are asked to fill out a legal document the box to be checked will be "single" until marriage actually happens. and being married does not come with a certain AGE this is why so many marriages fail because people think they HAVE to be married by 25 and have 4 kids by 30.
WOMEN learn to expand your horizons and independence.
Since then however, they have tried very hard to not be seen in public together romantically and when asked about their relationship they both tend to deny everything.
She is 85 because her kids are blessings and enable her to have that lifestyle. speciallyy with his new track '' just a dream'' he was so not talking about shani... I hate when famous ppl think weere stupidd at a loww poiint.. listen clearly to what they r doingg theyy are playing with words thatss itt.
There is no good hard evidence to suggest otherwise and Ashanti has denied these claims many a time.
It is understood that Nelly is old fashioned in his views on marriage and he often responds to questions about his love life and marriage with simple answers about only wanting to get married once and it being for life.
And he gets surprisingly defensive about his "non" relationship with Ashanti. And here's what he had to say: "This is just my opinion. I'm not saying he doesn't exist, he just has to exist for you. Kenya, Spain, All of the Caribbean, Brazil, UK, Greece.. I fell for the independent, self sufficient, you came in alone/leave alone... Having kids at 40 isn't fun when you are 60 when their 20.. Even if she is overweight she could be the best thang that happened to you.
Oh, and he also has some advice for all the single ladies out there and why there are so many single black females. It's not going to exist for society..for you to say "this is the perfect guy". My grandma had 15 kids and never worked a day in her life. Theyy aree playinngg with uss..ofcourse theyy were dating.broke up.they aree REdating again we aint stupiiddd they just dont wwant their bizzz to b put out there..yeahh well done nellyy !
One more thing my momma taught me not to be running my mouth to my nosy girlfriends about my man.